Auspicious Preludes: New Moon in Taurus 2017

New Moon in Taurus

April 26, 2017

By Maharani Rutan©

Hooray! Spring has sprung! Mother Nature is making sure we know it by slowing down humanity through the orders of the Devine. But this moon is a very special moon in many ways; it’s an auspicious moon in VPAT (Vedic Philosophical Ayurvedic Theories). There is an old saying; if you want to do something or plan something and you need luck, then do so one-half hour before the void of the moon.

VPAT also calls this moon the lucky moon. This is the day when the moon will turn into a new moon one-half hour before unification of the sun. Theory goes to explain that any planet in the solar system whose center directional sphere is within 15 to 19 minutes from the sun is very auspicious. It brings serenity to humanity and luck with serendipity.

The New moon will void our skies on April 26, 2017 at 5:16am PST and 8:16am EST. But the energy will be graced through 6 degrees in Taurus, depending upon the orb. This type of energy has never been repeated before, though we may have come really close in 2009 when new moon was in Taurus at 5 degrees or in 2006 when it was in 7 degrees. But every degree does make a difference on the impact to the behavior patterns of humanity. If you miss your chance to make the 30-minute window of luck, don’t worry, in 2036 it will be back at the same exact degree and you can try again.

New moon is influential in many ways; often they are known as wishing days. If there are any wishes that one has, they can be fruitful so long as they are selfless, non-biased, humble, and are not single-minded or focused. The luck will always be granted based upon needs, never wants or desires.

It is also a time of reawakening when we give ourselves a fresh start. A moon in Taurus grants a brilliant time to compel individual objective and the teachings circle around luxury and contentedness. Emotional responses are tranquil and stable, while shying away from hostility. However, if there is un-justness, there will be stubbornness when defending a position – never backing down.

Moon will guide a time of attentiveness and sensibleness. People may feel more conventional and steady. This is a virtuous time to endure or to conclude tasks that have previously been in progress, as people may be more trustworthy and comprehensive. This may have a lot to do with Mercury now moving away from Taurus and going back into Aries allowing a slight lifting of the pressure (read more here).

On the other side of the coin, Taurus loves expensive things and lately it has been very uncomfortable. Taurus loves consistency and Jupiter has not been consistent as it moved rretrograde in January (according to VPAT), in Virgo; it will not be direct for another 2 more months. This may cause many Taurus’ or those that have Taurus anywhere in their chart to act bull-headed — reluctant to compromise and be quarrelsome. Care needs to be taken to avoid pleasure-seeking and extreme anxiety or longing for material possessions.

Saturn is still retrograding in Sagittarius, which could cause some fire signs or those that have fire in their chart to be edgy, and cranky. While some mutable signs may be a tad bit depressed because mercury still retrograding. Just remember Dear Taurus, your just a little confused and feel your luck may be running dry, casinos are a not a place to be. Perhaps for half hour during the void of the moon.

While the universe may be nudging your luck, you have positives on your side, Dear Taurus. Some are suffering through the negative energy of Pluto Retrograde which started as of the 18th of April. This the time for you to learn, dream, envision, go to school; remember that class you wanted to take, or special technique you wanted to learn? But you just could not focus. Well, guess what! The universe is giving you a second chance, how about that! Enjoy yourself!

Since, moon in Taurus represents Stress-free, Applied, Sensual, Tolerant, and Persistent. We must use the practical senses. Remember the 10 aspirations. Don’t forget to cross the ones you have already accomplished and make new ones. Don’t forget to manifest matters concerning materialistic things at this time. And most of all, don’t forget to light a white candle that day, carve your name on the candle, anoint the candle with Frankincense oil, and chant Psalm 65 three times.

You may also choose to recite a mantra every morning until the next moon cycle. Remember that with all applications of psalms and mantras achieving the desired result is dependent upon the quality of intention. When it comes to finding a satisfying relationships and success, it is of the greatest importance to begin with a clear understanding of what your goal should be. The mantras can be hard to pronounce for many but are a powerful source of energy.


This year I have chosen to introduce two mantras; one which will be easy mantra for those learning the practice of reciting, and another for those who are experts. The mantra for Taurus moon is:

Easy

Om Hreeng Kleeng Shreeng

(ooommm Hriiiing Kliing Shriieeng)

Difficult

Om Gopalaya Uttardhvajaya Namah

Please note I am not an astrologer; I am a Certified Vedic Philosophical Ayurvedic Reader. Our theories are not based upon exact numeration nor exactness at all, we use place holders as unique characters and symbols as souls in the universe and believe everything is a possibility. In addition, if we know of something ahead of time, we can avoid it and evade trouble by changing outcomes or the way we view it which can alter any severity.

If you had your 6-month reading with me in February check both of your lists and manifest your positives.

Wishing you a very productive new moon in Taurus 2017.

Please be careful regarding communications and relationship issues until at least mercury is direct.

Namaste

Maharani Rutan©


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Principle of Pleasure or Pressure: Full Moon in Libra 2017

Full Moon in Libra

April 11, 2017

By Maharani Rutan©

On April 11, 2017, we will have a full moon transiting in Aires/Libra at 22 degrees. The full radiance can be seen around 2:08 am EST and 11:08 pm PST. However, this is a very auspicious day. Not only is it a full moon, but for many Hindu practitioners it is also “Hanuman Jayanti”. I will explain more about this magnificent day a little later.

According to the ancient astronomers, depending upon which region you reside in, the April full moon names were unique due to the culture. The first full moon in April is usually referred to as a Pink moon, or the Grass Moon. Often the mention of the Pink moon is due to the shade of herb moss that resembles dusty pink during the full moon light. While Green moon represents the robust color of the grass during the spring season bringing that life back to grass on the ground

It has been theorized that full moons disturb our opinions of people and frequently make us short-tempered. The methodical facts show that the density of the water current against the moon is the basis of numerous intermittent behaviors in people. Water is attracted towards the moon when the moon is full which intensifies the pressure of water retention and hermitages around the world including people, places and things.

As human beings, we are deep-thinking and our thoughts will be a bit slanted on the full moon night; just as the moon’s gravitational pull affects the ocean’s tides, so too will it pull us from one direction to another. The full moon may cause unexpected behavior and elicit wrath, premature labor, and bleeding.

Some people may not feel the effects of this moon, but it depends on several aspects. Primarily affected are those that have many planets in water and they could find this full moon to cause headaches, fatigue and possible sickness 5-7 days before and after the full moon. Additionally, if there is water and Libra in the chart it is a double whammy. Nonetheless, everything becomes flawless and more focused under the light of the Full Moon – desire and self-esteem can become quite exaggerated, and we may have more cognizance of, and a spotlight on, relationships. There is a good chance of getting a surge of energy from the light of the Moon and have more luminous dreams.

However, daydreaming and taking those dreams to the next level, may be a little bit more difficult this spring. According to Vedic Philosophical Ayurvedic Theories, there are four planets in retrograde, some of which have already been retrograding. Please note that these theories are a unique style of philosophies and neither Western, nor Vedic Astrology’s have the same idea.

VPAT (Vedic Philosophical Ayurvedic Theory) states that the first magnificent planet to go retrograde is Jupiter which is currently sitting in Virgo; thus, by association, it is affecting all earth signs (Taurus, Capricorn and Virgo). It will remain retrograde (1/28/2017) until June 29, 2017, which could cause money, luck, and financial progression to be a slower for those that have planets in those that were mentioned above. (Read more about it here).

The second outstanding planet that is always is misunderstood but is a teacher of karma is Saturn. VPAT positioned Saturn to be in Scorpio until January 15 and moving into Sagittarius on the 16th where it went retrograde and will remain retrograde until April 16, 2017. Saturn is about the importance of diligence through grief. People who are modest, honest, having faith in God face few problems as they are the benefactor of Saturn. Saturn will remain in Sagittarius from April 16 through June 06, 2017 when it goes back into Scorpio once again. There are numbers of people affected by this retrograde thus proving important for all. (Read about Saturn in Scorpio here) and (Saturn in Sagittarius here).

Third is our wonderful trickster, Mercury, who comes knocking at our door three times a year and is the most hated planet. However, he should be the most loved planet as he brings to us a time to reconsider all things in our lives to make sure we don’t make the same mistakes. VPAT considered his opening and transiting retrograde to be on March 23 and will continue in his path until May 21-23, 2017. The most effected signs will be Taurus (all earth signs Capricorn, Virgo), Mutable signs (Pisces and Gemini) and all those that have earth and mutable signs anywhere in their charts. Read about it here

Lastly, five days after the full moon and around the time of the eclipse, Pluto, the most misunderstood planet but the most powerful, makes its move. The retrograde will begin on April 15, 2017 and it will continue until the first week of September. Pluto generally retrogrades only once a year and is about rebirth and regeneration. But remember, the universe places this in our lives to give us the willpower to let go and eliminate. If you don’t let go, the events in your life will force the issue.

With all these planets retrograding, the full moon push and pull, the power of prayer, and Hanuman Jayanti will be the most welcoming spiritual phase. Hanuman Jayanti is celebration of the birth of Hanuman who was a faithful devotee of Lord Rama. But he too had supernatural powers and helped save Lord Rama’s wife Sita from evil Ramayan. His devotion was so strong that he could move mountains and clouds through his faith.

Many Hindu devotees celebrate this day differently; however, in Gujarat they fast the entire day. They go to Hanuman or Lord Rama’s temples by the hundreds and pray. It has been told in the scriptures that he was born at sunrise; therefore, most people begin worshiping at sunrise after a holy bath. Puja and Prasad is usually performed and ancient traditions state that people who worship him symbolize him as a devotion of strength, energy, and devotion. Hanuman is also known as the 11th avatar of Lord Shiva.

All relationships are about devotion and strength, and Shiva always represents a male and female energy thus the placement of the full moon is perfect. This moon is positioned to convey light on relationship issues; the sun in Aries will bring opposition in everyone. It’s an echo of one’s self in others’ lives and whatever that is put out there will come back, whether good or bad; therefore, being the best you can be will be the optimal way to go. Focusing on the needs of others will defiantly bring brownie points during this full moon emphasis.

Libra Moon values peaceful relationships. Appeasing people that are close and encouraging people to look after others with kindness and enjoyable manner with music and beautiful things. Libra Moon needs close friendship, company, or marriage to feel cherished and safe. A need for peace, harmony, and enjoyable surroundings is a must. In emotional situations, the Libra Moon tends to act very realistically and endeavors to make fair decisions. People will have strong compassion to, and attraction for, others. This comes from the Libras search for harmony and balance, for the Libra nature accentuates teamwork.

Since moon in Libra represents Amiable, Beautiful, and Comfortable, Open-minded, and Loving, it is my suggestion for us to remain balanced. This full moon is extraordinary to many signs. It is my suggestion that you purchase a yellow candle and carve your name through to the wick. Anoint the candle with lavender oil or peppermint oil and chant the Psalm 26.

You may also choose to recite a mantra every morning until the next moon cycle.

Remember that with all applications of psalms and mantras achieving the desired result is dependent upon the quality of intention. When it comes to finding satisfying relationships, it is of the greatest importance to begin with a clear understanding of what your goal should be. The mantras can be hard to pronounce for many but are a powerful source of energy. For this year, I have chosen two mantras for Libra moon:

Easy:

Om Hreeng Kleeng Shreeng

(oooom Hriiiinnng Kliiiing shhhhhriiing)

Difficult:

Om Tatva Niranjanaya Tarakramaya Namah

This mantra produces the excellence of friendship.

Remember to cross out the old affirmations, even if there is only the slightest change, and create new ones. The perfect number for aspiration is 10. This means to list 10 aspirations and recite them every night until the next moon cycle. Remember, never make the affirmations begin with “I balance”, they must be worded “I need balance in my life with friendship and love.”

This blog focuses on tendencies which may not individually relate to a person’s chart, rather it is a stepping stone for the tendencies of our environment. To find out how this full moon will affect you astrologically, it is advisable to set up a time with a recommended astrological advisor, Lee Stillwater or Leslie Hale.

A Vedic reading embraces a variable destiny and the forks that lay ahead for Karmic changes. It also embraces how our own wiliness to beautify and make changes allows prosperity and happiness in our lives. A Vedic reading is a pathway to changes and acceptable things in our lives whereas Astrology brings a foundation of the path. Together they bring a symphony of cohesion bringing peaceful resolutions.

Wishing you a harmonious full moon.

Namaste
Maharani Rutan©


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Sluggish Stubbornness: 2nd Mercury Retrograde 2017

Aries/Taurus

Pre-Progression: Mar 25-Apr 5, 2017(Begins in Aries)

Pre-Regression : Apr 6 -Apr 8, 2017

Mercury Station:Apr 9, 2017 (Taurus)

Mercury Retrograde Regression: Apr 10-14, 2017

Mercury Retrograde Juncture: Apr 15, -27, 2017

Post-Regression: Apr 28-May 2, 2017

Mercury Direct: May 03, 2017 (Aries)

Post-Regression Juncture: May 04-8, 2017

Post-Juncture: May 9-21, 2017

By now we have weathered the slowdown in the early part of the year; considering and reconsidering where our life will be 1 year, 5 years, or 10 years from now. But we still don’t have absolute answers. We thought we did until what was hidden came to light.

According to Vedic Philosophical Ayurvedic Theories, when Saturn moved from Scorpio (read about it here) and into Sagittarius, some of what was hidden came to light. It so happened that on inauguration day, we were fooled; or did we fool ourselves? We may never know. However, I spoke of blindfolds and shocks in my projection blog of 2017 (read about it here).

In the mix of it all, the entire society was angry, hostile, agitated, and most of all, aggression was the name of the game when Venus and Mars were in Aries. While Mercury retrograde was direct, time just moved us right into the month of February before we knew it. Jupiter debunked luck and money for many earth signs (looking at VPA) and we entered the darkness of the lunar eclipse in Leo.

The darkness was wretched; it shocked foundations and relationships while taking away things dear to our hearts. Leo represents family and our structure; it questions what was stable and what was not. Leo also asks if something was meant to stay or go; we had no control. With the lack of control all we could do is pray. Then there was Shiva.

Often represented in the form of Pisces, he brought light and the Last Solar Eclipse for Pisces until 2035. With blessings and prayers, he assures us that with a little faith there will be a new beginning. But it means we must look at all aspects of our lives. How much does money control our lives? If it was taken away what would happen?

The universe also questioned our need to control every situation and if, for a brief moment, someone else had the control what would happen? Then came the full moon in Virgo where something had to give. If it got in the way of work, projects, and goals, it ended. Be it a job, partnership, or even prospective interview, it had to be let go.

Now, the universe wants us to consider the last 2 months and think about what we have learned. It’s not like we have not gone down this road before. If you have kept a journal, which I recommend to everyone (especially my private clients), consider the events of April/May in 2010 then compare them to the issues of Mercury retrograde of April/May in 2016. Though the circumstances may not be exactly alike the lessons are surely similar. Since Mercury seems to want to question you, dear Taurus. It seems to me that you are being re-tested every 6 years so you can guess that the next time you will be tested again will be in 2023. So, enjoy this ride. I know…NOT!

The Pre-Progression period of Mercury begins on March 26 2017 and carries on until April 05, 2017 in Aries/Pisces. I consider this a signal from the universe to let all of humanity, especially those that have Earth signs, Mutable signs, and Fire Signs with a main focus of Taurus, to look back at events of March 2006, and 2011 and you think deeply about what could have been changed then and what will you do now. If you do nothing you will also be questioned by the universe again in 2018. Though things are not as intense, the circumstances in one’s life will begin to unfold where difficulties could begin to arise.

By the time April 6 rolls around many will become irritable, and Mercury will begin to touch the heart of fixed signs (Scorpio, Leo, Aquarius, and Taurus). The Pre-Regression period forces some to feel chaotic, as if something is not right or missing. Reflections of these events are linked back to April of 2004, May 2010, and now. But be sure that some of them are resolved. As the universe may ask similar questions in May of 2023 to make sure you have the answers.

The Pre-Regression period is as simple as leaving the keys to a car inside the home and locking yourself out; or leaving something at home when you are halfway to work. It is about minor glitches. Unfortunately, these minor mishaps will continue to disorient us until April 08, 2017.

On April 09, 2017, suddenly, almost everyone that has Taurus in their chart, mutable signs, fixed signs, and earth signs by default, will be affected by the intensity of retrograde energy. It will feel like a bad hangover. But it will not just affect the Taurus’. It will take everyone hostage. This day will seem like forever and many of us may pray for it to be over sooner than later.

Mercury turns retrograde at 4 degrees in Taurus. Mercury retrograde is always known as an omen to communication. In my eyes, Mercury is a Buddha. During the Mercury retrograde stationing period we can become very overwhelmed with TMI (too much information), thus it can cause small details to go unnoticed. It also gives us a time to look at old concerns in a different light, giving a deeper understanding of solutions. I believe Mercury is given a bad rap, like Saturn who is our teacher. Both Mercury and Saturn play a significant role in our lives and without them we cannot fully understand our lives. We can’t learn from our past in order to correct ourselves for the future.

When Mercury is retrograde, all conclusions are more reflective and we lean toward matters and anxieties that communicate to the sign involved. With Mercury retrograde in Taurus, people with this sign prominent in their charts will be predominantly predisposed to such introspection. Mercury retrograde creates a rational and emotional focus on self-autonomy and love with freedom. Attitudes may change, possibly being inclined towards an obstinate and judgmental nature. The big temptation will be to pressure people into sharing the same mind-set.

A planet is termed as retrograde when it gives the impression of moving the wrong way through the zodiac. This customary notion rises in the misleading planetary motion created by the orbital rotation of the earth relative to other planets in our solar system. Planets are never really retrograde or stationary, they just seem that way due to this visual illusion. Retrograde periods, although frequently challenging for us humans, are not rare. Each planet retrogrades except for the Sun and Moon. Mercury, much like the winged messenger of the gods, comes in on feather-light wings and commands us to speak.

Mercury retrograde gives rise to personal confusions: faulty, interrupted, or delayed communications, discussions and trade, along with the malfunctions and failures of telephones, processors, cars, buses, and trains. These complications frequently ascend because a vital piece of data, or element, has gone off track, or askew.

Taurus also refers to resources and those things that are a natural part of our lives such as food, shelter and clothing. Mercury in Taurus conveys facts which deliver evaluation of such objects and the standards we place on them. Monetary values will become a key component which influences the reconsideration. Some people may modify their financial aims and find different resources of financial structure. Mercury retrograde does NOT mean that you must halt the tasks you have in mind rather, take the time to be faultless. Be sure not to sign agreements or get yourself involved in legal disputes because it is a guarantee that there will be reexamination before the next retrograde.

Conversations might be more challenging, as crisscrossed gestures and blurred connotations muddy normally straightforward discussions. Still, with some slight thoughtfulness and reflection, you’ll get your opinion across. Similarly, be prepared with a back-up plan when you’re traveling.

On April 10, 2017, the intensity will continue though it may ease just a bit. However, the hangover will still cause many of us some dizziness. There are two things that earth signs cannot truly live without, especially Taurus. Once they have taste of it they want it over and over. This does not mean that it is bad, rather, sometimes it is difficult to balance both. The love of money and love of love. I would like to say that April 10, 2017 will be the only day you would feel this but this may not be the case.

Mercury Retrograde Regression, which is the hangover after the hangover, will continue until April 14, 2017. It is not recommended any financial, legal decisions, or papers be signed during this time as some important message or detail will be missed. It is also imperative that breakups or misunderstandings be handled with kid gloves as reconciliation may not happen until the next retrograde.

During the end of Mercury Retrograde Regression, on April 14, 2017, and the beginning of Mercury Retrograde Juncture Regression from April 15 through April 27, 2017, there will be mass confusion, especially in the area of relationships. While Venus is another planet of expansion and finances, it is also a planet of love in many senses. It is a time to consider the mistakes of the past. Be careful not to make hasty decisions during the Pre-Regression period as the Mercury Retrograde regression period is still valid and you may have adjustments, changing your mind and heart. Remember, not everyone thinks and acts like we do.

The message of the past is scrambled and is flying through our memory, like a movie on fast forward, to make sure we have all the answers we need. In fact, the information may become very overwhelming April 28, 2017 through May 02, 2017 when Mercury Retrograde moves into Progression period to station direct on May 03, 2017.

Suddenly, for one day the messages will stop. Things become very quiet and quite often many people are told that Mercury is stationed so there is no need to worry but in fact, it is the opposite. Mercury Stations on May 03, 2017 to help humans catch their breath for a moment. This allows the scenes and answers to be fed at a slower speed giving most of us, except fire signs, time to breathe for a minute or two while checking on fire and mutable signs.

On May 4, 2017, the energy will now enter post regression into Aries 24 degrees to test all fire and mutable signs; seeing if their homework from March 26 through April 08, 2017 is finished. If not, Mercury will come back and revisit with the rest in 24 hours.

Finally, Mercury gathers every zodiac through the post juncture and gives each sign homework to do until their period, from May 05, 2017 until May 21, 2017, has concluded. This is when all things return to normal again.

The good things to do when Mercury is Retrograde: reflect, envision, revise, de-clutter, spend time with your pet, listen to music, paint, and catch up on sleep!

Possible Mercurial messages that may need to be revisited are those actions/reactions and communications that continue to be repeated. These have not been the best decisions we made and they have not been the good for everyone. But Mercury will not bring all bad communication, he always brings mixed messages.

The information which I bring to you is not astrology or numerology; it is part of the Vedic Philosophical Ayurvedic Theories, whereas astrological tags are used as a character base. Therefore, the predictions are based on a VPA theoretical basis, not astrological. If you are looking for a western astrologer, please seek Lee Stillwater or Leslie Hale. If they are unreachable, please contact any of my other preferred astrologers (here). For those that have had one done, please look at your VPA chart and implement as needed. The predictions are in the order of intensity, placement, and timing.

Fixed Signs

As a family, we often suffer together. Taurus, as a part of the family of fixed signs, will feel the impact the most. As the recollections of 2004, 2010, and 2015 Mercury retrogrades were not easy, they add to the mix of Venus retrograde which is bound to cause every Taurus, and those in association, a bit of confusion. Money will be problematic and forget love and romance. Leo’s may be suffering some effects of Saturn as it moved into Sagittarius on January 26, 2017 (per VPA read about it here) and the eclipse this February really woke them up. But it shook us all up, including Scorpio’s, when we felt the relief of Saturn moving away from Scorpio (read about it here) and the eclipse bringing tears. And about those tears of loss, Aquarius is still shedding their skin as a result of the 2016 eclipse (read about it here).

Taurus

Areas of reflection and confusion: Well being, disposition, integrity, self-respect, and endurance.
Positive: Professional improvements and escalation in social circles.
Warning: Handle finances, legal issues, and family with care.

Leo

Areas of Reflection: Conviction, belief, perception, knowledge, visions, and revelations.
Positive: remaining full of activity and sufficiently overloaded with work.
Warning: Unanticipated interruptions in travel and expenditures.

Aquarius

Areas of Reflection: Individual environments, educational instruction, family, and secluded matters.
Positive: Surprising monetary increases.
Warning: Be extra cautious with your health, do not trade stocks or bonds, and mind your communication with family.

Scorpio

Areas of Reflection: Trust, legal processes, standing, spouse, and relationships.
Positive: Successes regarding job, money, and travel.
Warning: Refrain from arguments with your loved ones.

 

Mutable Sign

Since Gemini’s are ruled by the planet of Mercury, family kinship always makes that affected discomfort for all mutable sign 3 to 4 times a year. However, within the past 1.5 years, mutable signs have been blessed with major transformation of the ending of the Pisces eclipse series in February 2017 (read about it here). These signs are blessed with Jupiter still in Virgo (per VPA) until September 2017 (read about it here) and the teacher of past and present karma entering into Sagittarius (per VPA) retrograde on Jan 26, 2017 (read about it here). All of you may have had your share of higher than highs and lower than lows. Perhaps bipolar; it’s not you, it’s the planets. At least Virgo and Pisces are finished with their eclipses and I don’t foresee any eclipses in mutable signs this year or next. But that does not mean you will not be affect by other personal planets.

Gemini

Areas of Reflection: Revenues, money, retention, communication.
Positive: Transfer to a new job, alteration of your home.
Warning: Cease from gossip, boldness, and rage.

Virgo

Areas of Reflection: Long life, coverage, doubts, frustrations, hardship, and griefs.
Positive: Backing from your spouse or partner, and interactions will be delightful.
Warning: Don’t be slothful or defer.

Pisces

Areas of Reflection: Resolution, agreements, move, and finishing responsibilities.
Positive: You will have love, sacrifice, appreciativeness, and genuineness from your spouse.
Warning: Cautious of indulgence and investing in real estate.

Sagittarius

Areas of Reflection: Vigor, nourishment, obligations, distrust, and opponents.
Positive: Your ideas will finally get recognized.
Warning: You may feel fatigued due to work overload. Watch your emotions and legal issues.

Cardinal Signs

Most of you, at the moment, are somewhat worry free. Others may even be looking forward to things coming together soon. Nevertheless, the backlash of Saturn moving into Sagittarius may cause some Aries to drip drop money or have difficulties finding career opportunities. Capricorns maybe getting mixed signals between Jupiter, Mercury, and Venus retrograding. On the other hand, Cancers and Libras may be feeling a little bit at home doing what they need to do; either work to glorify their home or work to make their home more comfortable. Enjoy your time as I can’t say it will be the same during next year’s summertime.

Capricorn

Areas of Reflection: Ethics, higher education, religiousness, and families.
Positive: You may get positive acknowledgment for what you do for fun.
Warning: Cautious about your health and partner/spouse.

Aries

Areas of Reflection: Limitations, excess, dishonesty, verbal abuse, reserves, and offerings.
Positive: You may travel and earn a gain over your competition.
Warning: Cautious economic choices or enterprise should be avoided.

Libra

Areas of Reflection: Heritage, uncertainties, forfeiture, discord, and shame.
Positive: With hard work, you will accomplish your goals.
Warning: Watch your health, expenses, and arguments with relatives.

Cancer

Areas of Reflection: Recognition, dignity, power, promotion, success, and respect.
Positive: You will get involved in new religious activities and dive into your hobbies.
Warning: Watch out for an elderly female in your life with health issues.

The information which I have brought is all general tendencies and should not be considered exact to personal charts. Please remember this is not astrology; if you are looking for western astrology please contact Leslie Hale or Lee Stillwater. Having a VPA chart will allow for exact examination of the true nature of how one will feel during retrograde.

For those that have had VPA chart done it’s a matter replacing the values above.

With the beautiful moon in Aries/Pisces and first day of Mercury retrograde period, let’s slow down and take a deep breath.

Since Mercury is a very relaxed moving planet and it has consequences for almost all planetary signs, it is my suggestion that you purchase a yellow candle and carve your name through to the wick.

Anoint the candle with Inspiration oil or Eucalyptus oil and chant the Psalm 70 every single night. This period will last for 8 weeks and it will be tough on all of us. The energy of the fusion of candle and oil energy will bring forth welcoming communications as well as compassion in circumstances. You may also choose to recite a mantra every morning until June 03, 2017.

The mantras can be hard to pronounce for many but are a powerful source of energy. I have chosen two mantras for you during this Mercury retrograde:

Easy Mantra

Om shanti shanti shanti

(omm shaaa nthi shaaa nthi shaaa nthi

Difficult Mantra

“Om Mani Padme Hum”

This mantra is used to triumph spiritual clarity, to avoid and astound confusions, and keep approachable communications flowing.

Please recall, I am NOT an Astrologer nor do I assert to be one; rather, I am a Vedic Sanskrit Reader who incorporates Astrology as a value and basis of the reading, and ambiances the splendid transformation destiny and Karma reading as a conclusion to all readings.

I will be doing special timing readings for my clients during this period. Don’t forget, if you are going to plant the seeds of this wonderful new moon in Aries do it before the 29th.

Make a list of all your desires which cannot be bought or gained through manipulation (if you are not sure about these please contact me), bury it, and plant a flower or flowers over it. Take care of it like baby, water it, give it sun, and see how the universe expands it.

Namaste
Maharani Rutan©


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Generosity, Grace and Glory: Transformation 2016 Predictions

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2016 Vedic Philosophical Prediction

By Maharani Rutan©

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On Christmas Eve Day I decided to write my predictions for 2016. I could not help but to ponder the sadness of 2015. The great legions that passed away that that made differences in the lives of so many. From the co-founder of North Face (Douglas Tompkins) who kept us warm in the cold weather, to the designer of the Bat-mobile which everyone wanted (George Barris). Not to mention Former Senator Fred Thompson, perhaps better known as the District Attorney in Law and Order. We also saw the passing of Jackie Collins who kept most women’s romance alive in their hearts through her wonderful novels, Bobbie Kristina Brown – the only legacy of Whitney Houston who could have shimmered the world, Omar Sharif a heartthrob of the 60’s, Nicholas Winton who saved 650 Jewish children during the holocaust, and Dick Van Patten who played the father in the show 8 is enough.

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Some of the most heartfelt deaths of this past year included B.B King (musician), Percy Slege (Musician), adored Leonard Nimoy (aka Mr. Spock in Star Trek), Zsa Zsa Gabor(actress), then there were those that the heavens set the stage. From Afghanistan, Africa, France, India, Australia, U.K, Japan and much more. Some of these deaths could have been prevented while others were caused by natural disasters. But whatever the case, and no matter what the circumstances, we cried many tears, we mourned, we feared, but most of all, we live daily to protect our family, friends, and country.
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We will soon begin 2016 with many uncertainties, including where the future of one of the most powerful nations falls as it is placed into the hands of its political process. Thus we have plenty to think about and Mercury retrograde from 2015 going into 2016 will make sure that we think about how our communication and telecommunication is reliant upon the messages being delivered. At the same time Jupiter will also retrograde in Virgo.

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Last fall Jupiter entered Virgo which brought or rather, is still bringing, opportunities to Virgos; but Virgo should not have wasted time. They should have been on the move: investing, looking, planning, organizing, networking, but most of all building as time is of an essence (read about it here). However, January 5, 2016, this magnificent planet of luck and fortune will be moving retrograde. There is an old saying, everything should be in moderation otherwise we may become ill. Meaning that if you love sugar and eat too much of it then there is a probability that you may become a diabetic and you may never have candy again. Therefore, when Jupiter begins to go retrograde in Virgo, all earth signs (Capricorn, Taurus and Virgo) will be going through introspection in regards to understanding how to improve themselves so that they are able to handle more critical issues in their lives when Jupiter goes direct. The worst thing one can do around this time is to get scared because life slows down as you know it. Therefore, Capricorn and Virgo will have a double slow down whammy in January and February of 2016. However, it may last a little longer for Virgos as Jupiter stays retrograde until May 2016.

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On January 03, 2016 Mars will enter Scorpio which could be good or bad as it means that everything in life as we see it may be all black or white with nothing in between. But it is about challenges, making profound changes, keeping things a secret, and testing our limits. Within two weeks or so Venus will enter Capricorn, and therefore, while their luck of Career and life as they knew it slows down, perhaps their luck in love and all things such as art and beauty will be at their best. Thus Capricorn may still be a little dissimulated and Scorpios may go through some through some transformations.

As Valentine’s Day gets a little closer and Mercury retrograde starts to move direct, we will feel some relief. However, Venus also moves from worrisome Capricorn and into friendly Aquarius. The residue of Mercury still remains however, so watch out for old lovers returning. I wish I could say that instantly the phase will be over but the light at the end of the tunnel will not be bright until the end of February when we finally get some relief, not for long though. Brace yourself! And hold on tight as the spring brings us some bumps and bruises along the way, as it did spring of 2015.

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As tough as it was for us in 2015, the eclipses were not as bad as they will be in 2016. In 2015 we had 4 eclipse, in 2016 we will have 5. A solar and lunar eclipse in the spring of 2016 and Lunar-Solar-Lunar eclipses in the fall of 2016. In spring 2015, our first solar eclipse magnified openings with the Pisces/Aries eclipse on March 20 (Read about it here), followed by the Libra/Aries eclipse on April 4 (read about it here).

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No, I have not forgotten, as always it appears that super moons seem to follow the eclipse, or vice versa; we will have six super moons in 2016, just like 2015. Instead of all of the new moons being in the beginning of the year, they will be during the eclipses or little after.

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Our first new super moon will cover the entire sun disk and form a total solar eclipse. This eclipse will focus on early born Pisces’ who will now open their eyes with the first total solar eclipse on March 08, 2016, and Libras who will now end their last eclipse for a while with the Libra/Aries eclipse on March 23, 2016. Fortunately for Libras, they will not be affected by eclipses now for quite some time, but that will not stop them from being affected by other aspects. These eclipses will magnify changes for both Pisces and Libra’s for 6 months, setting the stage for their own transformation and I would not be surprised if all those that have planets in in mutable or cardinal signs are affected by these eclipses. Even though the eclipses are transforming Pisces, Venus will grace them by entering their sign, at least until April 05, 2015, while Mars likes things to be fair in Sagittarius and wants the truth. Additionally, by now Saturn is going retrograde and perhaps Sagittarius’ can at least breathe for a little while, at least until August when Saturn goes direct again.

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Finally, the merry-go-round begins to slow down and we are able to get off. However, while we are huffing and puffing while holding on to the railing, the universe looks down and says, “oh you need some rest? No problem! I will give you rest.” He puts his whistle in his mouth and blows and says, loudly ‘HEY! MERCURY! THESE HUMANS ARE TIRED!” Mercury smiles, and rubs his hands and says, “oh goody!” Even if our life is about to slow down this does not mean the cosmos slows down. Our second super new moon will be on April 07. One week later, on April 12-14, Mercury retrograde will take the second earth sign hostage. First, he took Capricorn, next is Taurus which means that not only are Taurus’ going to be affected, but all earth signs. I know Capricorn, its hell, I know. Oh, Virgo too. And let’s not forget Gemini, Pisces, and Sagittarius. Oh, why not by default, all those associated too. While our spring quickly begins to move to summer our heads are now between our legs and we are in a fetal position.may1As earth signs bask in the heat in May, the third super new moon will enter our atmosphere on May 06, 2016. Additionally, a few days later, the splendor of Jupiter moves direct in Virgo at the beginning of May once again. But, by association all earth signs will shine bright with kisses and splendor in the glory of prosperity and abundance until September 2016. By the time Mercury retrograde moves into the ghost period. Gemini’s will be whistling as Venus moves into their signs and summer love will bring their love life a little sparkle. However, when Mars had gone retrograde in Scorpio in April, Scorpios and its opposite Aries, people became, and will continue to become very irritable. This anger may disturb the harmony for many people, and possibly even what they do for a living. While Earth signs are confused, Air signs may love the summer romance, while Water and Fire signs may be creating some steam. I call this period simply, a mixed bag of tricks. May will, however, also bring our last Blue moon until 2019; be on the lookout as it is going to be marvelous.

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Finally, in June and July the universe will give us the break we all need. In June, Venus will enter Cancer and it’s time for Cancerians to spread the love and turn the torch over to his brother Leo. Family and love is always where Leo’s enjoy love to be. Now everyone can finally enjoy their summer until we are glued to our television, or taking a nice vacation to Rio, for the summer Olympics. Or are we preparing for the next eclipse, or the next full moon? No matter what it is, take your favorite Ice tea, put a lounge chair in the water, put on your John Belushi glasses and float. This is exactly what Pisces, and those with Pisces in their charts, will do starting in June when Neptune goes retrograde again. Ok, you may even feel a bit tipsy.
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As the summer gets hotter Mars will enter Sagittarius in early August which will affect all fire signs. Sagittarius’ love to have fun but this time they will get what they want, and if they don’t they won’t hang round for long. Just a few days after Mars enters Sagittarius, Venus enters Virgo (August 04, 2016) where Virgos are sexy, shining, and making everything so sweet. With Jupiter and Venus in Virgo I wonder how many followers beautiful Virgos will have; they will shine bright and have what they need. But if you asked me I think the Olympic committee should have called me before they set the date for the Olympics in Rio. As we are glued to the television on August 5, 2015, the Mercury retrograde ghost period will begin to start making things quite difficult for earth signs, but this time he is holding Virgos hostage. Hence, Virgos will not mind, they will shine quite pretty. As for the rest of us, well, all other earth signs and mutable signs may have a slightly tough time, especially Sagittarius. Saturn, a planet of difficult lessons, finally moves direct in the second week so tough lessons are already on their way for Sagittarius.

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Moving into mid-August, transformation for Aquarius people now begins with their first partial lunar eclipse. These are questions that arose from the eclipse of August 7, 1998 combined with those from the eclipse on August 5, 2009. All those with Aquarius and Air signs in their charts, and fixed signs, will be affected by this eclipse and all unfinished business must be taken care of now. But hold on tight, really tight, we are not finished yet! As we end August, Mercury is still retrograding. The summer Olympics are now over, we just passed an Aquarius Eclipse on August 18, 2016, and we are now ready to hide under the blanket. It’s like the Eagles song Hotel California, “you can check out any time you like but you can never leave.”

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There is a whole lot of shaken’ going on beginning on September 1, 2016; this is the second Virgo/Pisces eclipse, the first being in 2015. You are now being questioned about things from 2006. Yes Virgo, you will be affect by one more eclipse two weeks later, then you are done for 5 to 6 years. Yes, Venus has left your sign by September and you have now given the torch to Libra where it is at home. You will also hand over the torch of Jupiter to Libra as it’s their turn to hold on to it for a little while because too much of a good thing is never good. I hope you used your time well as Jupiter will not be back in your sign until 2025 in the western astrology but guess what… in the eastern astrology it’s about to enter your Jupiter in September so maybe, just maybe, you hit the lotto with a double whammy? Maybe.

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If you sit for too long to have a drink of water that is way too long on September 16, 2015. We will have another eclipse, yes you got it, and that makes 5 eclipse in 2016. This one is in Pisces therefore it will be considered Pisces/Virgo eclipse. Yes, I promised you Virgo, it is the last eclipse and it is. Pisces however, you do have one more in 2017 and you are done as well. This is also asking about your 2006 lessons. A few days later Venus will enter Scorpio and some things will be hidden. Mars will also enter Capricorn and here we go again – worries galore. But at least for Capricorn, things will look much clearer when planet rebirth goes direct.

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I am looking at, and writing all of this, and I am thinking we need a break in October. Do you feel it coming? By now we are in our ghost period of Mercury retrograde. There needs to be some deep concentration on the Presidency of United States and the people cannot do this when “stop-go” continues to happen. So now the slowdowns are gone for the year. I think. The eclipses are finished. Jupiter is in Libra and Saturn is still in Sagittarius until next year. Uranus will retro and direct in Aries for a while. Neptune will be in Pisces for a while, Pluto will remain in Capricorn for a while, and Chiron in Pisces. So what’s left?

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Ahhh… Super moon! The first super moon will be on October 16, 2016, which will also be a full moon in Aries. As I always say, if you find full moons are bad, a super moon is worse. But something very phenomenal is also occurring just 5 days before the presidential election, which is the black moon on October 30, 2017. The black moon is also a new moon in Scorpio; it a sign of death, rebirth, and secrets; hmm… sounds very mysterious. No, I am not going to predict who will President.

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By the beginning of November we now have a new ruler of the most powerful nation in the world. Mars is in friendly Aquarius yet perhaps friends may be a little demanding of us. Venus, meanwhile, is in worried Capricorn. Finally, our second and the brightest super moon occurs on November 14, 2016; which so happens to be in Taurus. Tsk tsk, a bit stubborn; and to think, in 10 more days we will have Thanksgiving. Are we going to feel as though we wonder where the year went, or are we going to remember the year as thank God it is over? Except for the uncertainty of the nation, November is not so bad. And I promise, the year ends just like it began.

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December 1, 2016, Mercury will enter the ghost period with Mercury in Sagittarius causing intensity around Christmas (something look familiar?). Our third and final super moon occurs on December 14, 2016 (Full moon in Gemini). Ending the year with Venus in Fun Aquarius, Mars in Pisces, Jupiter in Libra, we can now exhale. Virgo’s no more eclipse as promised.

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So what will we learn in 2016? We will learn more about money; how we spend and how we should spend. We will learn about value of relationships. We will learn about family. Most of all, we encounter important lessons of work in progress as 2017 through 2018 is a transformative period of spiritual transitions for many.

Please note these are general predictions not to be noted as western astrology predictions, if you are looking for a western astrologer that can look at your personal chart please see my link here or contact my recommended astrologer Leslie hale here.

Wishing you the best of 2016 and may your transformation be delightful and spiritual looking forwards to talking with you on Facebook and look for my blogs of 2017.

Namaste

Maharani Rutan©

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Stopping the Madness #5

 

 

Be The New You …

Remember people love you as you love your self…

One of the saddest times in our lives can be during the holidays.  Especially during Valentines Day when we see some of our friends go out with their boyfriends and husbands.  It hurts even more when we see gifts delivered to our jobs but it is not for us.  And sometimes we are wishing someone that cared enough to do the same. But often forget that the love that people show in a material world may not be as exclusive as the love we should show to our selves and our loved ones on a daily basis.  

Contrary to what they say on the radio and television, we do not need someone to tell us we are loved.  To be able to love your self enough means to treat your self too. Give your self a card; treat your self to a special Valentines Day most of all write to your self. I bet you might think this is funny but have you ever written to your self? The answer to that might be a little chuckling but its ok.  

Remember the times when notes were passed in class by someone you liked? How about passing your self a note, parent the child within you.  Ask your self some kind words, tell your self about what you accomplished today, why not pamper your self today and make an appointment with the hair dresser, how about joining a gym and exercise.  They say when you exercise your body you exercise your soul. How long as it been since you were in a bubble bath? How long has it been since you went shopping for your self? The activities that you find pleasure in will help boost your own enthusiasm so that you can reflect this to all the people around you. 

 When you find pleasure in the little things in life you will finally have the ability to honestly ask for help when you need it without expectations. When the healthy boundaries are placed in your life and you have less expectations you will not have disappointments. Sometimes we all need help in something’s in our lives being helpless does not mean you are weak but acting helpless is another thing. The turning point in your life comes when you have faith that everything we need will be taken care of and everything we want will be a miracle through faith.

 Faith is not the same thing as expecting others to lend a hand, faith means that you believe in your self and believe that when you take care of yourself you take care of others. I know many of you may say to me how you can say that when you are working 13 hour days, how I can say that is because I keep going.  I know that there will come a time for “me” time soon and universe will show me the “me” time when the time is right.  So that people who relay on me right now will now allow me to show my capabilities rather then just my abilities to get the job done and this is done through releasing the inner child. When we release the inner child within us we release the energy of negativity and out of no where comes this burst of energy of creating healthy boundaries between your self and your partner or the people you love. 

Loving your self often is not easy when we are too busy taking care of others.  But sometimes when we release the inner child and set healthy boundaries between our selves and our relationship life this is when all comes together. Many co-dependent people do not understand that we continue to play the role of the fixer, the parent, the rescuer that we forget we are getting ill in the process. Often times when we are also being a role which we are not we disable our selves to feel emotions.  We erupt like a volcano it basically killing our soul as well as killing people around us emotionally.

 The only way to figure out which role to play in our lives is to do healthy inventory by asking your self:

  1. Am I always rescuing people?
  2. Am I always a scapegoat to people’s aggression?
  3. Do I always play a mascot to people and never having others play one too?
  4. Am I always a victim by always complaining of what I do not have rather than what I do?
  5. Am I always trying to win and argument or feel as though I must be always right?
  6. Am I always trying to look too beautiful rather than being my self?
  7. Am I always trying to be so smart that I have no time to think?
  8. Am I always nurturing others and there is no one to nurture me?
  9. Am I always helping someone one that I don’t take time to help me?
  10. Do I always look for people to take care of and am too busy not able to take care of me?

 This is where the healthy boundaries are.  Learning to say no without being vindictive and understanding just like your self others need space, time and nurture too.

Starting today ask yourself what did you do today that you said you would do and really get it done.  And how did you spoil your self today for example today I had a pizza and a coke while I am always dieting that was my gift to my self. Tomorrow while shopping for my doggy I will stop a Barnes & Nobel and get a relaxing book.  The next day it will be Valentines Day and while I go search for the perfect card for my children.  I will also buy something for my self that will make me feel good be it a little ornament for my door or even nice linen what ever it may be there will be a little for them and little for me. And every day I promise to ask the universe to forgive those who have hurt me.  Because just like me they do not know what they do therefore, I am not perfect either.  But tomorrow is a better day than today and Valentines Day will be even more special because I love me just as much as I love you.  But if you don’t love me back as much as I love you that is okey because I love me just enough and everything else will fall into place. 

And on Valentines Day the most beautiful joyous moment will be that I have another day with my son and another day in life with all of you.  Because its not just about I love you’s but it is all about I understand you and am here for you if you ever need me.  Though I am not always there but you are always there in my sprit and my thoughts even when my world becomes busy and even when I wrote this.. this is my heart and this is my soul but most of all this is my spirituality and this is my gift to you on Valentines Day and the only thing I ask in return is please love your self so that you can love others like the universe loves you … unconditionally.

This blog was aired live on Blog Talk radio on February 12, 2010, though it was a short segment thank you all for coming.

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Namaste

Maharani

Stopping the Madness Step 4

Step #4

Love Your Self

To build a long sustaining relationship we must have a relationship not only with the ones that we love but ourselves.  We spend so much time taking care of others that we forget that we have needs that have not been met.  Though we often have a tendency to push aside our needs that it becomes a volcano ready to erupt which only leads to conflicts in a relationship which could have been avoided from the beginning if only we had set boundaries.  

Relationships are created because the person we are interested in fills the void which we were not able to fulfill ourselves.  Our fulfillment is not always on a consistent level which we have programmed ourselves to do so when the other person is not consistent with their actions we feel that they do not care or perhaps if we do more then the other party will put more effort.  However, we fail to realize that this is obsession. 

 In the previous chapters I have discussed that to control habits of obsession we must first get fired.  This means that it is not our job to fulfill the other persons every need or get so involved in the other person that it directly affects our lives this will only lead to dissatisfaction.  The second chapter emphasized on trying not to fix the other person so that they mold into our world, what we do not realize is that if we do not accept the person as they are kinks and all then we are not accepting ourselves within that relationship.

 Human beings are very fixated on gratification that we all have needs that are often geared from within our selves and always looking attention.  The disappointment becomes a habit so we are always in search of someone better or someone that is more perfect.  But, there is no perfect person and you are NOT perfect either. There is only one perfect thing which is the universal energy. But even universal energy can’t help you when you are imposing another human being in place of it. So what is the solution?

 This solution is simple yet very unique. The best way to love others is love your self and respect your self to its fullest.  This means to find your own energy and the way to do it is:

 LOVE YOUR SELF.

 Through out our childhood we were often reminded how much we were loved or appreciated or we had no choice but to love our selves unconditionally.  I am sure you remember the times when you had to make your own dinner, put your self to sleep, do your own homework, make your own friends, and basically take care of your self.  We basically nurtured and took care of ourselves. It is not selfish to still do that but at a deeper level. When we give so much of our selves to others we exhaust ourselves emotionally. The emotional deprivation can lead to failing health, depression and even creating chaos in our own relationships.

 According to Judy Hayes book Smart Love,”It is not selfish to nurture our bodies and spirits in fact only after we have nurtured ourselves can we be genuinely and freely loving towards others.”(2001, pg.49).  But we are so used to having others nurture us that we forgot how to nurture ourselves so we look for others to accreditation by giving and hoping for things in return.

 There is a old saying in the spiritual world to find your inner child, however this comes from child hood also meaning if your childhood was full of restrictions therefore, your inner child will to will be restricted.  When you are nurturing your inner child then only can sincerely be nurturing towards others. We absolutely can not expect others to always place us on a pedestal and gloat us all of the time when and if we do then we will be disappointed and even when you do this can only mean that the other person is so desperate for a relationship that when they find someone better than you where they have not do it all of the time this is where they will go.

 To be able to contact your inner child means to contact the universe by taking care of your self.  Began with small steps without expectations such as:

 Be with nature

  • Take a 10 minute walk by your self and connect with nature.  Try to increase this every week.
  • Go to the zoo or the park or go hiking, running or just watch even children play
  • Walk on the beach or a lake-make sure you sit down and exhale for at least 10 minutes

Be kind to your mind

  • Take a 10 minute time out by closing your eyes and thinking about good things.
  • Read a funny book for 10 to 15 minutes a day (laughter is a great medicine)
  • Watch a funny show or at least try once a week.

Be kind to your soul

  • Meditate
  • Listen to soft music (instrumental please)
  • Get on your knees and pray for peace ONLY.

Be kind to your body

  • Stretch every morning or take Yoga Classes
  • Go to the gym or exercise 20 minutes a day
  • Cut back on sweets, salt and anything that is not healthy for you

Be kind to your heart

  • Call up a family member whom you have not spoken to in a while and just say I love you.
  • Call up a friend (not an ex or boyfriend) whom you have not spoken to in a while and just say hello.
  • Call up a colleague or someone you connected on an intellectual level and ask them how they are doing.

 When you take the small steps and do it without asking for one thing in return then you are ready to connect on a more complex level of connecting with your inner child.  This means your thought pattern must change.  This means also that you must look at each situation in a different way. 

For example: If you broke up with someone and you pine over them. Our natural instinct forces us to think in a negative way so that we can justify the break up in our own mind.

 Present thought process: I gave everything to __________.  He/She never gave back to me.  I really tried but I still do not understand why ____________ does not want me anymore.

 New thought process: I did everything I could and I learned a lot.  If I only known what I know now I would be a better person in that relationship. However, this is the Universe’s way of saying I still have a lot to learn and until I can truly apply what I know I can not practice with feelings by going back right away or obsessing over ___________ right now.

 

For example: If you are in a relationship with someone and they are not being attentive this is also a good example of a friend and relative. They do not either return your calls when you want them to or they do not call you back right away or they are not supportive of you and you feel like you are talking to a wall.  These things may process in your mind such as:

 Present thought process: When I call someone I expect them to call me back.  I am always there for _____________, and they are never there for me.  Perhaps I am too needy and maybe I should back off and give that other person some space.  But I am afraid the moment they call me I will let them have it because it’s not fair.

 New thought process: Maybe ____________is busy or the phone is out of reception area and I am sure he/she will call me as soon as they can because I know they know I have called.  I will call someone else in the mean time.

 

Last example: I had something horrible happen to me at work and just needed someone to talk to and I just can’t believe that ________________ cut me off.  They did not hear anything I said and abruptly said that they had to go and they are always telling me it’s my fault.  Perhaps it is and may be I should not be so critical and I deserve to be disrespected because what comes around goes around.

New thought process: Maybe _____________was not in a good mood and they had a lot on their mind.  Perhaps I should have asked if they were busy and now I learned.  I will instead go for a walk or do some meditation because this is my problem and I have to deal with it my self.

   

These are perfect examples of having too many expectations of others as well as looking for approval from others.  Most of the time when we do get approval it is not long lasting because when you bring up when they agreed as was there for you, they may say such thing as that is what I felt then right now I feel this way.  This can only make you feel disappointed.  As I have always said if you come from a dysfunctional family where there was not approval, affection or appreciation then most likely you will try to gain this from others and often times the relationship you are in will also become dysfunctional, and abusive.

 An ability to talk to your inner child must not be in a sarcastic or egotistical way it must be nurturing almost like you are talking to child.  Because you’re inner child has been hidden for so long. Be honest with your self; apologize to your self, reward your self, ask for your forgiveness, ask your self not to be afraid or have insecurities because the universe brought you here to have faith in it not others.  Human beings are just characters in your world they are teachers, friends and especially those that you are suppose to learn from not necessarily someone you can always count on because they have a life too and sometimes you are not a part of it, this does not mean they do not care, but it means they have boundaries and they are also nurturing their inner child.  If they are not then they loose not you because you will be that person who knows who you are and like any rose you will feed it, nurture it, look at it, and most of all fertilize it every day because that rose is beautiful rose and wants to be the most beautiful thing that the universe has ever seen.

Having said that… know I love you and I mean that from the bottom of my heart because you are now reading this and my energy brought you here that means that I was able to capture on minute of your time which means that your minute was ever most precious and I love you for it and I thank you for it.

 Sadly, life caught up to me Friday night and I was not able to air the segment of this topic therefore, I have taken the liberty to post this for those who want to start working on step #4.  I apologize for those who came to my show and I was not able to make it and I promise I will make it up to you.

Namaste

Maharani