Lost meaning….

Happy Valentines Day…..

February 14, 2011

By

Maharani Rutan ©

Valentines Day… Great concept! Great history but the meaning is lost in the commercialization.  What happen to appreciating the people you love everyday? What happened to saying I love you everyday? Does it have to be so glamorized? Do you have to give a gift to show your appreciation and love? Or can we do something little and special everyday for the ones we love?

Holidays such as Valentines Day, Christmas, Thanksgiving and New Years can be a trigger to depression for many.  Hence Valentines Day is traumatic trigger. Looking around one can see hearts and cupids and romantic pictures of couples glances and kisses.  Single people feel that there is no meaning of Valentines Day without having someone in their lives. In eyes of society as well as our own friends this can be considered “the holiday blues.”  Each and every one of us have gone though these triggers one time or another in our lives where we are feeling as though we are not loved just because we are not in a relationship and there may be possibility something wrong with us. But sometimes it is the opposite we have love all around us, and appreciating what we have and who we are is the magnitude of strength within us. So the meaning is really lost, which is that Valentines Day is not about giving something to someone significant it is about sharing our love with everyone.

When I was and in Elementary school my teachers used to make us buy a box of Valentines Day Cards and we had to write our names on it and address to no one in particular.  She counted how many students there were in class and we had to make sure that we had that many little Valentines Day cards.  Unbelievably little Valentines Day cards still come in box of 100. But, it was not just about giving anonymous Valentines Day cards to our class mates but she also made us make something out of paper, glue, and crayons, “Make sure its creative” she used to say.  “And remember children this is for your favorite people show them how much you love them, make it red, pink, white and all the pretty colors in your heart.” I used to come home with so much candy and cards in my backpack that it seemed that the cards which I made were always crushed or wrinkled.  When I showed the card I made for my mom, she was so happy that every year she would unwrinkle the card and gently place it on the refrigerator with a magnet. Along with those memories there was always one thing that always stood out for me on Valentines Day. Which was teacher saying, “Valentines Day is about telling people that we love how much they are appreciated.” To this day I still give little things to my children, my parents and those that have impacted my life in the greatest way.  It is about appreciation, it is about thankfulness.  But should that not be every day? I often wondered how this holiday did become so popular and what is the true meaning? And have we really lost the pleasure of making things?

Valentines Day, was proclaimed as a holiday approximately February 14, 496 AD. Though there are two tails to this story the meanings are similar.  The most popular historical thought was that when Emperor Claudis II ruled Rome he had a difficult time recruiting men to his army because men did not want to leave their wives and families to go off to war.  To retaliate against the men to rather force them to join the military, Emperor Claudis II sanctioned that all marriages or engagements be cancelled or put off in Rome. Those that did not comply were put to death.  Saint Valentine was a priest in the Roman Empire at the time and secretly married couples and was later put to death through sever beatings and decapitation.

 

The second version is very similar to the first version, hence there is a wonderful twist which is that while Valentine was waiting in prison for his sentence that a great power of healing was bestowed upon him.  Through this healing power he was able to save the Emperors daughter from blindness. However, the Emperor would not do away with the laws of marriage and through Valentines retaliation and just before his execution he wrote a letter to the Emperors daughter that he fell in love with her and ended the letter, “From your Valentines”.  Valentines message was that a person is not centered around Eros( passionate love) but agape (Christian love or rather unconditional love).

Which ever historical fact one chooses one thing for sure we must understand that Valentines Day should be every day.  Appreciation, love and kindness should be without expectations.  While receiving is nice it’s equally nice to give, so instead of finding the most important Diamond which is just material thing, or that sweet perfume or even that Get Away that is planned for this weekend.  Why not stay in? Light that beautiful red candle and say, “I really appreciate you” because anyone can say they “love you” but to mean it is to earn mutual appreciation and respect.

I believe picking up the phone and calling the local Florist for roses are too easy (just take out the card and pay later).  I believe making dinner reservation is also too easy (just take out the card and pay later).  I also believe the special vacation is too easy again (just take out the card and pay later).  Instead go to a field of wild flowers and pick your own (guys that’s not feminine that very kind gesture).  Why not call 2 days off work and spend the weekend at home and shut off the phone and computer and spend some cozy time drinking champagne and eating truffles.  Why not make heart shape pancakes for that special someone with strawberries on them? It’s those little things that count even doing something that you don’t usually do for that special someone and make it memorable. But Valentines Day should be every day.  Not only on February 14.  A little kindness and going that extra miles is more meaningful than material things that can be discarded the next time it is lost or when money is of a essence… therefore, I want to thank you and here I am giving a little thanks ………

On February 13, 2011 at 7am to February 14, 2011 at 5pm I will be doing destiny readings.  I am also trying a timing technique which I am still trying to perfect through Vedic teachings.  All I ask is that you send me your birthday in mm/dd/yyyy format I don’t need your birth time or the where you were born and with one question with a timing.  Though I do not guarantee the timing will be correct ( I hope that it is) I will give you what I have.

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Happy Valentines Day friends… I really do appreciate you..

Namaste

Maharani

Here are the requested readings.. as a gift.. enjoy

 and Happy Valentines Day

Menesh

Here is a token of my appreciation and thanks on this wonderful Valentines Day:

You are currently transiting a very interesting Ketu time.  This period started for you on January 10, 2011 and it will continue its presence until March 25, 2011.

Western Meaning

For the next 60 day you are being blessed by the Universe to accomplish a lot of success and you are mastering everything you set your self to do.  You should allow you’re self to change your mind and create more success by looking at things differently than before you will then plant the seeds to what you believe and the things you are trying to change such as things around you on a physical world by going inwards. You may also be called on to lead a certain career pattern and it will be quite successful.

Sanskrit Reading:

This transit may make you look at consideration beyond your beliefs. You may be influenced by women who are helping the less fortunate or through them you may be also very generous to people.  You will have a strong sense of business and effective advocate to many ventures.  You will inherit a sense of responsibilities and gain security and independence through women who give to others without expectations.

Bonus Valentines Day Question.

 “Time to dissolve our share in C store business?”

You will finally realize that in approximately 8 weeks or at the latest the New Moon in Scorpio October 26, 2011. That you are holding on to something that just needs to be let go and no matter what it’s not worth hanging on to.  Though I can’t tell when you should sell your shares.  You may be given an opportunity with in 4 weeks or on or before June 8 you could get an opportunity to think of past as positive thing rather than regrets.

I hope you enjoyed this reading and be so kind to leave me a comment it’s through acceptance and embrace that I can keep this site running.  Additionally let me know in the future how things turned out for you as well.  Your journey of life is quite important through giving unconditionally we find solace in our lives.

Velda

 Here is a token of my appreciation and thanks on this wonderful Valentines Day:

You are currently transiting a very interesting Mangal time.  This period started for you on January 13, 2011 and it will continue its presence until March 29, 2011.

Western Meaning

For the next 60 day your intuition is quite intense. You are ready to make some wonderful compromises and to have a peaceful and serene place to call home.  You will also have stability and balance in your life through adjustments and the karma which you have already paid back. You will be given energy to understand what you purpose is and you will have the opportunity to share this with others and you are moving into a very spiritual world

Sanskrit Reading:

You have fought hard to have your earned victory.  You are reaching a milestone where commitment to change is for the better.  You are passing through a gate way to a new era with resolutions to problems of the past and present.  You are going to gain control of situations which have worried you and you will have success through hard work and great planning to bring satisfaction to your endeavors.  You will carefully maneuver your way through conflicts and oppositions and have conquest and achievements to go along with it with honors and warm receptions of people who appreciate you.

Bonus Valentines Day Question.

“Will I bear at least one child within my lifetime?”

As you know birth of a child or death is in Gods hands.  Hence I can’t play God because not only I can not play one but I refuse to be in such a high stature as God.  In my philosophical beliefs NO ONE should be giving you that answer but before anyone can answer that you must have someone significant to give you a child. So instead of asking the question of a child I asked when will you have an opportunity to have that significant person that will give you a child if that person is here are they the seeds to your desires?  For the next 9 weeks and all way until middle of 2012, you are giving to people and being involved with people that do not deserve you.  Either that you don’t want to feel that you will be without or that you are settling for less.  To attract someone in your life that will give you things back equally and could be a good parent to your child or even if you wish to adopt that chance can come when you examine your self more carefully which could come in approximately 3 weeks or by July 31, 2011 when you ask your self what exactly are you looking for and what you are attracting to change your direction.

 I hope you enjoyed this reading and be so kind to leave me a comment it’s through acceptance and embrace that I can keep this site running.  Additionally let me know in the future how things turned out for you as well.  Your journey of life is quite important through giving unconditionally we find solace in our lives.

Grace

Here is a token of my appreciation and thanks on this wonderful Valentines Day:

You are currently transiting a very complicated Rahu time.  This period started for you on February 14, 2011 and it will continue its presence until April 25, 2011.

Western Meaning

For the next 60 day your focus should be on achievement and contentment in areas of your career or health as long as you put some effort into it.  You will over come any difficulties in areas of wellbeing or other areas of your life that needs your attention. Your work may over burden you and you may even become so obsessed with things that need to be done where you may become a workaholic to set specific aspirations

Sanskrit Reading:

You may feel tremendous pressure to finish a specific task or tasks which may test your diplomacy.  You may feel that you are living under restrictions or a specific code of conduct.  You may temporary feel suppressed in your personal desires in order to complete certain things in your life and you must play by the rules.  You may have to please others but you will succeed at what you do as long as you put your work into it.

Bonus Valentines Day Question. 

“My questions are What lies ahead? or What should I be expecting?
(Career wise or love and relationship or something else)?”

 Since I know your mind has been on romance therefore I will focus on significant person in your life.  Between now and May 17, 2011, you may be deemed to find that right person that you may become very dependent on filling the void that you may feel.  But if you take a break from your love life and concentrate on what you need to do then you will be extremely happy with your love live by October 26, 2011. But it is going to take work on your part and not to jump to the first thing that comes and the universe will NOT allow infatuations or quick relationships anymore.

I hope you enjoyed this reading and be so kind to leave me a comment it’s through acceptance and embrace that I can keep this site running.  Additionally let me know in the future how things turned out for you as well.  Your journey of life is quite important through giving unconditionally we find solace in our lives.

Pauline

Here is a token of my appreciation and thanks on this wonderful Valentines Day:

You are currently transiting a very complicated Shukria time.  This period started for you on January 28, 2011 and it will continue its presence until May 02, 2011. Its so fortune that you may share your experience with Grace she has the exact transits going on in her life but for a bit shorter time than your self .. here is what I have given to her

Western Meaning

For the next 60 day your focus should be on achievement and contentment in areas of your career or health as long as you put some effort into it.  You will over come any difficulties in areas of wellbeing or other areas of your life that needs your attention. Your work may over burden you and you may even become so obsessed with things that need to be done where you may become a workaholic to set specific aspirations

Sanskrit Reading:

You may feel tremendous pressure to finish a specific task or tasks which may test your diplomacy.  You may feel that you are living under restrictions or a specific code of conduct.  You may temporary feel suppressed in your personal desires in order to complete certain things in your life and you must play by the rules.  You may have to please others but you will succeed at what you do as long as you put your work into it.

Bonus Valentines Day Question. 

“any updates? Love? Another child? Work??”

As I stated to Velda, I can not read on a child because that is God energy not for me to decipher.  As far as love, you already have that all around you but it is a matter of appreciation.  Therefore, I have decided to concentrate on your work area since your destiny calls for work. From now until April 17, 2011 you may feel a little frustrated with work or that you may feel as though you are not accomplishing as much as you want to. You will feel much more satisfied with the progress of your work after January 2012. But you must decide to plant seeds and not get impatient when they don’t sprout quickly.

I hope you enjoyed this reading and be so kind to leave me a comment it’s through acceptance and embrace that I can keep this site running.  Additionally let me know in the future how things turned out for you as well.  Your journey of life is quite important through giving unconditionally we find solace in our lives.

 
 

Travis

Here is a token of my appreciation and thanks on this wonderful Valentines Day:

You are currently transiting a very complicated Rahu time.  This period started for you on January 1,  2011 and it will continue its presence until February 28, 2011.

Western Meaning

For the next 60 day its all about work you want to do so much that you have more than you can handle on your hands.  You may go through a lot worries.  Its better to be creative and use your skills as a outlet because it will not be beneficial for you to over worry.  Use this time to be more creative than ever before and you will reap the rewards that will come with it.

Sanskrit Reading:

You will gain practical knowledge and envision your own possibilities.  You will have good trade and negotiation skills and you may even enter into a new business transaction.  You will advance a step closer to your goal and you will have ingenuity and partnership.  You will cultivate early stage of extreme success.

Bonus Valentines Day Question. 

“when would it be a good time to relocate?

You can not repeat the same things you have done in the past and there could be delays because of old issues not being resolved.  You can not look at the past a negative aspect but as a positive to move. You are going to have to stay very busy for the next 6 weeks to accumulate what you want to accumulate to make your move If you decide to move a good time would be after September 27, 2011, if you do it before you may have some unresolved issues.

I hope you enjoyed this reading and be so kind to leave me a comment it’s through acceptance and embrace that I can keep this site running.  Additionally let me know in the future how things turned out for you as well.  Your journey of life is quite important through giving unconditionally we find solace in our lives.

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January 2010 Winners

Every week there are winners, just follow me on BlogTalk Radio as well as patrons of Psychicbitch, and Psychicbiatch are more than welcome to enter, just join our show and listen go to “special give away tab” and begin you journey.

Winners January 29, 2010

BlogTalk Listeners Winner Circle

  

Topic of the discussion was how to began the step work #3 to stop obsessive patterns in a relationship.

I want to personally congratulate the following friends, for their free gifts this is such a simple contest that you need to show up at the show and follow the tab special give aways. And many of you did just that; and some participated. Here are the confirmed winners for January 29, 2010, (I am only going to put first names for privacy reasons).

Since I was only able to stay on for one hour it became quite difficult for me to keep up with all the readings therefore… at this time there is only one confirmed winner..

  • Mellissa (Redeemed 1/31/2010 Value 19.99)


If I have missed your name and you were present at the show please take the time to fill out the
Contact me form and I will check the log. If you do not contact me within 24 hours after the airing of the show the entry will not be valid.

Every week there is a new topic of the week, whether it is about relationships or lunar changes but there is always something new.

Once again congratulations go out to all those who listen and those who applied the steps to begin their life to a loving journey of solidarity.

Namaste

Maharani

 

Winners January 22, 2010

BlogTalk Listeners Winner Circle

Topic of the discussion was how to began the step work to stop obsessive patterns in a relationship.

I want to personally congratulate the following friends, for their free gifts this is such a simple contest that you need to show up at the show and follow the tab special give aways. And many of you did just that; and some participatedHere are the confirmed winners for January 22, 2010, (I am only going to put first names for privacy reasons).

Blog Talk Give aways

  • Carol W ~ Minutes towards next full reading (value 19.99)
  • Cheryl K ~Minutes towards next full reading (value 19.99)
  • Melissa~ Destiny reading 60 days (value 19.99)
  • Robert ~ Minutes toward next full reading (19.99)
  • Tempas~ Spiritual reading 90 days (Value 19.99)
  • Warren~ Destiny reading 60 days (Value 19.99)

If I have missed your name and you were present at the show please take the time to fill out the Contact me form and I will check the log. If you do not contact me within 24 hours after the airing of the show the entry will not be valid.

Every week there is a new topic of the week, whether it s in focus of relationships or lunar changes but there is always something new.

Once again congratulations go out to all those who listen and those who applied the steps to begin their life to a loving journey of solidarity.

Winners of Special Gifts

January 15, 2010

Topic of the discussion was how to stop the obsession in a relationship and the Solar Eclipse of the sun.

I want to personally congratulate the following friends, for their free gifts This is such a simple contest that you need to show up at the show and follow the above steps. And many of you did just that; and some participated

Here are the confirmed winners for January 15, 2010 , (I am only going to put first names for privacy reasons) .

Blog Talk Give aways

  • Carol W ~ Min towards a full reading (Retail Value $19.99)
  • Cheryl K ~ Min towards a full reading (Retail Value $19.99)
  • Elizabeth~ Destiny Reading Received on 1/16/10 (Retail Value $19.99)
  • Robert ~ Min towards a full reading (Retail Value $19.99)
  • Tessa~ Destiny Reading Received 1/17/10 (Retail Value $19.99)

(I must hear from some of you with information as well as what you have choosen)

If I have missed your name and you were present at the show please take the time to fill out the Contact me form and I will check the log. If you do not contact me within 24 hours after the airing of the show the entry will not be valid.

Every show that was broacasted through blog talk radio was archived with the topic of the week and the topic of December was expectations, chapter 6 of expectations was not broadcasted through blog talk becasue they are just applications.

Link to the show is below Listen to Maharani Rutan on Blog Talk Radio

The show begins at 9pm EST until 11pm EST every Friday night and you do not have to stay for the entire show you may come say hello and stay a little bit if you wish to or join our chat.

Here is the new number to Call-in Number: (914) 338-0876  

Namaste
Maharani

Winners of Special Gifts

January 8, 2010

I want to personally congratulate the following friends, for their free gifts This is such a simple contest that you need to show up at the show and follow the above steps. And many of you did just that; and some participated

Here are the confirmed winners for January 8, 2010 , (I am only going to put first names for privacy reasons) .

Blog Talk Give aways

  • Melissa (Offer Expired 1/10/2010 5pm EST)
  • Shunika (Offer Expired 1/10/2010 5pm EST)
  • Tesa (Offer Expired 1/10/2010 5pm EST)

(This is what happens when instructions are not followed and emails are not checked on a regular basis)

If I have missed your name and you were present at the show please take the time to fill out the Contact me form and I will check the log. If you do not contact me within 24 hours after the airing of the show the entry will not be valid.

Every show that was broacasted through blog talk radio was archived with the topic of the week and the topic of December was expectations, chapter 6 of expectations was not broadcasted through blog talk becasue they are just applications.

Link to the show is below Listen to Maharani Rutan on Blog Talk Radio

The show begins at 9pm EST until 11pm EST every Friday night and you do not have to stay for the entire show you may come say hello and stay a little bit if you wish to or join our chat.

Here is the new number to Call-in Number: (914) 338-0876

Namaste
Maharani

Dec 2009 winners

Winners of Special Gifts

December, 2009 winners

I want to personally congratulate the following friends, for their free gifts This is such a simple contest that you need to show up at the show and follow the above steps. And many of you did just that; and some participated

Here are the confirmed winners for 2009 and the value of their gift, (I am only going to put first names for privacy reasons)

2009 Blog Talk Give aways

April

  • 15 minute reading $35.00 (Already claimed 1/6/10)
  • Destiny reading on the self $39.99 (120 days)(Already Claimed on 1/6/10)

Bryn

  • Destiny reading on the self $39.99 (120 days)(Already Claimed 1/5/10)

Carol

  • 6 months In-depth reading on your self retail price: $90.00(Already Claimed 1/5/10)
  • 15 minutes towards any readings in the future $30.00(Offered expired)
  • Destiny reading on the self $39.99 (120 days) ( Already Claimed on 1/3/10)

Cheryl J

  • Destiny reading on the self $19.99 (60 day) (Already claimed 1/2/10)
  • Destiny reading on the self $39.99 (120 days)(Already claimed 1/2/10)

Cheryl K

  • 6 months In-depth reading on your self: Retail price $90.00 ( Already Claimed 1/3/10)
  • 15 minutes towards any readings in the future $30.00 (Already claimed 1/7/09)
  • Destiny reading on the self $39.99 (120 days)(Already Claimed 1/03/10)

Desiree

  • Destiny reading on the self $19.99 (60 day)(OFFER EXPIRED)

Gary

  • 6 months In-depth reading on your self: Retail price $90.00 (Offered Expired)
  • 15 minutes towards any readings in the future $30.00 (Offer expired)
  • Destiny reading on the self $39.99 (120 days) (Offer Expired)

Georgette

  • Destiny reading on the self $19.99 (60 day) Already claimed

Heather

  • Destiny reading on the self $19.99 (60 day) Already claimed
  • Destiny reading on the self $39.99 (120 days)(Already Claimed 1/3/2010)

Natasha

  • Destiny reading on the self $19.99 (60 day)(Already Expired)

Robert

  • 6 month In-depth reading on your self : Retail price $90.00 (Already Claimed 1/4/10)
  • 15 minutes towards any readings in the future $30.00 (Offer expired)
  • Destiny reading on the self $39.99 (120 days)(already claimed 1/03/10)

For those who have a gift of a 6-months in-depth reading please contact me before 7th of January and those that have Destiny reading please send me your birthday in a mm/dd/yy format.

If I have missed your name and you were present at the show please take the time to fill out the Contact me form and I will check the log

Every show that was broacasted through blog talk radio was archived with the topic of the week and the topic of December was expectations, chapter 6 of expectations was not broadcasted through blog talk becasue they are just applications.

Link to the show is below Listen to Maharani Rutan on Blog Talk Radio

The show begins at 9pm EST until 11pm EST every Friday night and you do not have to stay for the entire show you may come say hello and stay a little bit if you wish to or join our chat.

Here is the new number to Call-in Number: (914) 338-0876

Happy New Year

Namaste
Maharani

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Winners of Special Give Aways

December 23, 2009 & December 25, 2009

I want to personally congratulate the following friends, for passing phase two of the FREE gift and give away. This is such a simple contest that you needed to do is show up at my show on Eastern Serendipity on December 23, 2009. Only thing that is required is either participate or join the chat room me a private message. Some of you or even call in to (914) 338-0876 and asked your free questions and we were able to discuss the topic of the day

Here are the confirmed listeners for the December 18 show and they returned for more abuse (kidding) on the 23rd therefore, they are receiving two gifts from me. (I am only going to put first names for privacy reasons)

  • Cheryl
  • Gary
  • Robert
  • April
  • Carol

The new winners this week are as follows

  • Georgette (already claimed her gift)!
  • Natasha
  • Lee
  • Disseree (I think I mis-spelled your name)
  • Heather (Already Claimed her gift)
  • Cheryl J

If I have missed your name and you were present at the show please take the time to fill out the Contact me form. I will check the log and get back to you.
For those Blog Talk Listeners or those that are new you can find me on
Maharani Rutan’s Eastern Serendipity. add me to your favorite on Blog Talk and Blog Talk will send you emails when the show is going to be schdule to be broadcasted.

Namaste
Maharani

Winners of Special Gifts

December 30, 2009

I want to personally congratulate the following friends, for passing phase two of the FREE gift and give away. This is such a simple contest that you needed to do is show up at my show on Eastern Serendipity on December 30, 2009. All these winners received preference in having their readings done prior to new callers by simply joining my mailing list


Only thing that was required is either participate or join the chat room me a private message. Some of you or even call in to (914) 338-0876 and asked your free questions with our special guest
Lee and discussed their outlook for 2010.

Here are the confirmed listeners for the December 30, 2009 show and they returned for more abuse (kidding) receiving three gifts from me. (I am only going to put first names for privacy reasons)

  • Cheryl
  • Gary
  • Robert
  • April
  • Carol
  • Cheryl J
  • Bryn
  • Heather

The were new winners this week due to the fact newsletter clients were given preference.

If I have missed your name and you were present at the show please take the time to fill out the Contact me form. I will check the log and get back to you.

For those Blog Talk Listeners or those that are new you can find me on
Maharani Rutan’s Eastern Serendipity. add me to your favorite on Blog Talk and Blog Talk will send you emails when the show is going to be schedule to be broadcasted.

Namaste
Maharani